Under the Hood
Pelvic floor physical therapist Dr. Alexandra DiGrado and sex & couples therapist Dr. Rebecca Howard Eudy get real about sexual health, intimacy, and the stuff we didn't learn about our body in school. From the clitoral hood to parenthood, no topic is off-limits. Each episode blends a combined 30 years of clinical experience with compassionate advice and humor, giving you trusted knowledge, practical tools, and the confidence to take charge of your health and relationships.
Under the Hood
Episode 7: The Truth About Kegels (what really happens in pelvic floor PT)
Most people hear “pelvic floor PT” and think, “So…Kegels and an awkward exam?” But here’s what most people don’t realize: good pelvic floor physical therapy is full-body, trauma-informed care that connects your bladder, bowel, sexual function, posture, breathing, and stress levels—not just your vagina, penis, or “down there.”
In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Howard Eudy (couples and sex therapist) and Dr. Alex DiGrado (pelvic floor physical therapist) pull back the curtain on what actually happens in a pelvic floor PT visit. From the intake questions to the internal exam (always optional, always consent-based), they walk through how a skilled PT looks at your whole body, your nervous system, and your real life to understand what’s going on.
Whether you’re leaking when you sneeze, dealing with constipation, dreading sex because it hurts, or just wondering if your “weird” symptoms are normal, this conversation will leave you informed, de-shamed, and more confident about getting the help you deserve.
What You’ll Learn
- What really happens at a pelvic floor PT appointment
- Why training and approach matter so much in the PFPT you choose
- The truth about Kegels (and why tight muscles are weak muscles)
- How your whole life shows up in your pelvis
- Signs that pelvic floor PT could help you
Tune in if you’ve ever thought:
- “Isn’t pelvic floor PT just Kegels?”
- “I had a weird pelvic floor PT experience—do I really want to try again?”
- “Why am I leaking, in pain, or running to the bathroom all the time?”
- “Is it normal that sex hurts (or feels numb) after childbirth or surgery?”
- “What actually happens in an internal exam—and do I have to do one?”
Resources
- Pelvic floor + postpartum support & courses
- The Healthy Pelvis Project – virtual pelvic health and postpartum support:
https://thehealthypelvisproject.podia.com/
- The Healthy Pelvis Project – virtual pelvic health and postpartum support:
- Find a pelvic floor physical therapist near you
- Pelvic Rehab Provider Directory:
http://pelvicrehab.com/ - Pelvic Global PT Directory:
https://directory.pelvicglobal.com/
- Pelvic Rehab Provider Directory:
- Sex & Relationships
- Parents in Love: A Guide to Great Sex After Kids by Dr. Rebecca Howard Eudy
Connect with Us
- Dr. Rebecca Howard Eudy
- Website: https://www.rebeccaeudy.com
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rebeccahowardeudy/
- Newsletter: https://substack.com/@parentsinlove
- Dr. Alexandria DiGrado
- Website: https://www.bostonpelvicpt.com
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bostonpelvicpt/
- Newsletter: https://bostonpelvicpt.myflodesk.com/underthehood
- Podcast
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/underthehooddocs/
- Website: http://www.underthehoodpod.com